frustrations
**I’m venting here, if you don’t want to read, then carry on!**
I’m quite frustrated. I hope it’s just today, i don’t know.
I worked my butt off in LPN School, graduated on Honor Roll, passed LPN Boards on the first attempt, and what do i have to show for it right now?! NOTHING! I’ve been on 3 job interviews and i’ve got nothing. They want you to have experience…. but how does one get job experience without A FREAKING JOB?!?
And the whole nursing shortage?! it’s a shortage!!! So shouldn’t you people being hiring?
I’ve thought about what i would do job wise if i didn’t get a nursing job… I HAVE NO IDEA! All i’ve thought about and wanted to do is to be a nurse. I want to work with people, help make people’s lives better, be passionate and caring, and love life. I mean is that too much to ask for? Is there even a job where i can do that? I’d love to have a job where i could just be me, completely me, 150% of the time!
I don’t have experience out side of working as a Medical Assistant and the past few months as an LPN. Getting a job, much less a part-time job, would be pretty difficult.
I’m frustrated with where my health and weight loss is. I tweeted to Tara and Paula tonight– “well i’ll be honest i’m NOT working hard, I’m just not. I’ve lost my uuumpfh and my motivation!”
Tara said, “Eff motivation. Mine left 15 months ago…DETERMINATION is what I rely on. It never leaves.”
–> Homegirl is RIGHT! It’s about being determined and working your ass off. At the moment, i’ve seem to have lost my determination.
I have dreams of reaching my goal, happy weight and being done, and “crossing that finish line” even though it won’t actually be finished, it’s a lifetime thing sista.
My problem is i have difficulty getting from here to there. I need to figure out a plan. How am i going to get to goal/happy weight? What am i going to do?
I’ve got to do something. I think or i’m pretty sure Weight Watchers will work for me. I need to just give it my all and try my best. I KNOW that this overweight and sluggish girl is NOT who i’m meant to be. I was meant and created and destined for greater things.
I’ll be honest somedays i wish i really do that when i wake up in the morning, the weight loss fairy came during the night and zapped the 130 pounds that i need to lose away! But then i snap back, and realize that that’s not realistic and that’s not going to happen; as much as i would LOVE for it to!
Phewwww. Enough ranting for one night. Just need to get it out.
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It’s ok to be frustrated. If you never got frustrated you wouldn’t be human. You might want to try writing all your goals down on paper and prioritizing things you can do today, tomorrow, next week, next month, etc to reach your goals. I just started this program by Chalene Johnson called 30 Day Challenge and it’s all about goal setting. Here is the link if you want to check it out: http://www.chalenejohnson.com/30daychallenge/
Accept your frustration, regroup, and push forward. You can do anything you set your mind to!
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I would tell you that they’ll hire you here, because we have 3 hospitals plus other health-related places that are ALWAYS begging nurses to come work for them. Seriously, I’m not even in the health field and *I* know that. But I don’t think you want to live in WV, because, apparently, it’s not Austin.
So Tara had that same “fuck motivation!” chat with me a while back, and it’s totally what kicked my ass and got me going. The way I see it, you haven’t lost your determination, you’ve just been focused on motivation and haven’t taken the time to find your determination just yet.
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It sounds like you know what you want, but are really struggling to get there. I’ve tried everything too so know exactly how you feel. I’ve recently started a program (here in Oz) which is kinda working for me, so fingers crossed.
I am much older than you (43yrs) so I hope you can reach your goal weight and be much happier (and achieve those greater things you are destined for).
Though… wouldn’t it be nice if there was a weight loss fairy. I hoped for a genie the other day! http://dietschmiet.wordpress.com/2011/06/06/genie-2/
Good luck!
Deb
Recognizing the need for determination is the step in the right direction. We’re all here to support you, girl! We’ll be behind you 100%!!!!!!!
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You are an inspiration to me, just know that writing this blog inspires others on similar journeys. It is totally human to lose your determination and motivation. I have been doing wonderful with my weightloss but yesterday I felt stuck and wanted to eat everything in sight. I had to wake up to a new day this morning and tell myself today will be different. Thank you for your blog this morning, it helped me to remember that we are all human and many of us have similar struggles. We are not alone in this!
I’m really glad you wrote this post! I hope it helped release some of the frustrations. It’s hard to get a job anywhere with this crazy economy but keep on trying, the right job for you is out there. The crappy economy is out of your control, but what is in your control is how you treat you. I know its hard to focus on the weight loss and exercise when something so pressing as getting a job is on your mind. But food and exercise is what you can control, so I say start there. The job will come and by then you’ll be in a food/exercise routine and it will only make things better…it will get you closer to the life you want to have!
I love you and you’re an inspiration for me every day
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Hug, hug, hug!!! I can tell by your spirit that you got this my friend, you are determined and so strong – you can do ANYTHING you put your mind to and I believe your mind is ready for the task.
Good luck!!
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When I graduated from Dental Assisting school & went on to get my RDA I was striking out on the job front too. Everyone wanted experience and I was a quiet & shy 19 year old who just needed a chance. I finally found a dentist willing to teach me and it became a career that I loved. Sometimes it’s not easy to get started but once you do….things get easier. I guess the same goes for the weight loss journey too.
XOXO
i totally understand your frustration! one day, though, you’re going to have an awesome job and will know you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. sometimes God likes to stretch us a little bit first!
always praying for you, my dear!
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I am sorry that the job search is not going well right now! UGH! I will keep thinking postive thoughts for you. Losing weight and then keeping it off is a lifetime struggle and I agree with the determination comment. Sigh..lately my motivation is gone too. It sucks. I am like C’mon Kelly!!!!! Sheesh!
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You’ll get there! It will take time and hard work – and yes, determination, because there will be plenty of days when all you want is a vat of mac & cheese (um, not that I’ve had one of those days or anything, heh). But you can totally do this! You are really one of the most positive people I “know.” If you keep your spirit up and break your big goal down into mini goals, you’ll find yourself where you want to be. Also, WW can be a great resource – as you know!
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I hear you on all of this, girl. Life can be so frustrating sometimes and it must be totally aggravating to not be able to find a job when you kicked so much ass in school and on your boards. Just keep trying! Knock on every door until someone says YES.
As for your weight loss, same thing….just keep plugging away. Everyone has some period of slow going. When I first started this journey last June, I thought I’d be 100 pounds down by my birthday in April. It’s months past that now and I’ve lost “only” 65 pounds total. You don’t always achieve your initial goal but you will achieve every goal eventually if you just stay determined. I’m here to help in any way I can. Love you!
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Brit I understand your frustration with the job situation. I was laid off from my job in 2009 and spent a year and half jobless, I applied many places and was always told I needed more experience. The market is fierce right now. Have you considered vounteering at hospitals in the meantime? This could help you in your future interviews. Stay strong, something will come up.
I know a few peeps on twitter who do nurse recruiting, would you like their info?
Sorry you’re frustrated girl! I agree about determination! Sometimes it’s about faking it til you make it. Focus on the things you can do right now…keep working at losing weight, keep applying for jobs and maybe even find an additional focus!
I’m sure it’s not what you want to hear, but when I moved to where I wanted to be, I had a crap job for 14 months while I kept applying and going on countless interviews before landing the kind of job I wanted. You make a good point about the shortage and being a quality candidate, so hopefully you’ll find something soon, but it’s definitely tough out there.
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Hi, I just stopped by and browsed (lurked – or whatever) your blog and thought I would add a thought.
I see a very upbeat, sweet, energetic and totally likable person in you. It IS tough finding a job right now and you have only had three interviews! 3. Flood the place with your resume and maybe reconsider how far you would be willing to go and when you DO interview, do not miss the opportunity to show them YOU. Because I know that if I have to choose between a handful of people and one may have slightly less experience, but be someone I want to work with, I choose the person I think I will enjoy working with. Tell them the things you want to do and why you want to be a nurse like you did here in this post -because THAT is really meaningful.
Good luck. Chin up and if you interview, write a hand written thank you and do not forget to follow up (aka politely remind them of how great and eager you are).
hugs
I love a good rant!!!
Oh, and the Universe wanted me to let you know that it got your message loud and clear!
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I know EXACTLY how you feel with the job situation, exactly… hang in there.
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I just found your blog and I wanted to tell you that I’m on the exact same page as you: I just graduated from nursing school last month and I can’t snag an interview for the life of me. I started applying for jobs back in March and all I’ve received are the standard “we’ve decided to pursue other candidates” letters. So frustrating!
Anyway, just wanted to tell you that you’re not alone and to hang in there – it’s got to get better!
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I completely know how you feel. I was out of work for 8 months. It was the most depressing time in my life. Don’t worry, you will get through it. The ups and downs of a job search is terrible, but it will get better eventually.
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It is ALL about determination!
Hang in there girl. You’ve worked hard and it WILL pay off. The little things NEVER go unnoticed – even if it seems like they do at the time!
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Can I get an AMEN?! I’m so glad you decided to post this. Life can be SO frustrating sometimes, and venting is what you SHOULD do. I hate the “experience” BS that all jobs require. Why the hell does an entry level job require experience?! It frustrates me beyond belief. I know saying this doesn’t put a job offer on the table, but I know how you feel! I’m hoping a nursing job shows up in your future real soon
xoxo
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I knew I’d forget someone! You are added Chica! Thanks for all your inspiration and honesty- you are a PHENOMONAL woman! Don’t ever forget that
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Sometimes life can throw you pellets and sometimes it can throw you hail storms. I’m sorry you’re so frustrated right now, you can get through this girl … I know you can!
Harness some of that energy and spunk I saw at Fitbloggin and get out there, own those interviews. Show them the hard working smart person you are and make them have to fight for you. Then when you get back from the killer interviews put yourself first and get some great workouts in.
You can do this … a little bit of planning and harnessing that built-in energy and you’ll be knowing down the pounds and stepping into that new job.
Tomorrow is a new day!
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Losing weight is HARD – and its frustrating because you have to work so hard, but you dont see results right away. Its easy to lose your determination, motivation, drive, whatever you want to call it. You’ve just got to keep pushing through because you can, and will do it.
Its the same with the job situation. Do not give up. Nothing worthwhile comes easy. You’ve gotta fight for it, but getting what you want is worth the effort.
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ugh, sorry friend. Things will happen! Peseverence!! You will get a job and you will lose the weight. One day at a time.
<3!
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It’s ok to be frustrated but like others have said don’t give up. Keep on keeping on. I’ll be praying for you that the ‘perfect’ job comes your way
Hang in there!
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